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         When dealing with yourself, here are a few things to consider. Nothing is more sexy or attractive than a confident woman! It is very important to have fun and relax, everyone is attracted to a smiling face. Take care of yourself, you are worth it. No one is going to love you as much as yourself, If you love and respect yourself others will follow your example.

A man’s point of view: Cold Eggs & Hot Mammas

Multitasking actually slows me down…. Women seem to be known for being masters of multitasking.

I watch my wife doing common jobs around the house more efficiently than a machine. I appreciate her skills and knowledge that she routinely demonstrates. Case in point; I love that she is so efficient at cooking, but it kills me to not be able to pull off a simple “breakfast in bed” meal with the kids on a special occasion, without being stone cold by the delivery of the meal.

My spouse can make a morning meal for four, in a very short period of time and serve it, piping hot with what appears to be little or no effort….Eggs cooked three different ways, fresh biscuits, coffee & hot chocolate, fresh fruit, pancakes, grits, bacon etc…All served expeditiously with all the condiments, a smile on her face and not a drop of sweat on her brow!

Embarrassingly, I have tried on numerous occasions, mother’s day, birthdays to pull off similar feats with the help of our two girl’s ages 10 & 12, with less favorable results. I would love to blame the kids for my own inadequacies, but they seem to work very efficiently under their mother’s supervision. Amazingly enough, when I help in the kitchen, she somehow makes me feel like a pro too. She builds our confidence to the point that we all think that we can bake, fry, brew, grill, mix, and slice up meals as easily as her.

Last mother’s day, we attempted to prepare a big breakfast of eggs, toast, bacon, coffee, fruit, and cinnamon rolls! I swear I spent an hour making this meal. Although each individual component of this grand breakfast, in themselves , were at the time of immediate completion, probably not too bad…but by the time of delivery, the hot items were cold and the cold ones were warm, hence my problem of multitasking? Although much effort went into trying to complete every thing at once, my timing was off. Why did it take an hour? I can’t tell you…The three of us worked our butts off! Everything seemed to be happening at once! The rolls only take twelve minuets to bake! We are all veterans in the kitchen; after all we were trained by a pro! I missed the lesson on multitasking 101. I guarantee you; my wife could have pulled off this entire event in 25 minuets or less, with little or no help at all! Prepared and served to perfection.

So in conclusion, maybe multitasking doesn’t actually slow me down? Maybe I’m just a guy…inept at routine internal functions of the home. I just feel more comfortable doing one job at a time…O.K. not as impressive as my wife’s performances, but maybe just as effective when it comes to the really big jobs, slow but sure. I wonder if Brad Pitt & Angelina Joliet have the same problem.

A man’s point of view

The other night, after a very stressful day, I found myself wound like a clock! My day started with having to read the minutes of a forty page deposition, checking it for mistakes and making the appropriate corrections. The deposition centered on a forklift accident fatality at my workplace, that I had witnessed a few years earlier. The review of my testimony of that tragic event, brought back to me all of the despair and sickness that I felt on that horrific day,

Fast forward to my truck ride home from work this day….I had stopped at a local Wal-Mart shopping center to pick up a few necessities, milk, bread, etc. I departed the store, and continued my trip home from work. As I entered the intersection leaving the store, another accident unfolded before my eyes. A compact car, a mini cooper, with a distracted female driver plowed into the passenger side, rear corner of a stopped vehicle in front of her, causing her mini to flip and roll, coming to rest on the driver’s door, facing the opposite direction.

I bounded from my truck, to the aid of the trapped lady, inside of her mangled, overturned automobile. Along with two other men, we stabilized the unsteady vehicle and assisted the trapped woman, still within it, until paramedics and firefighters arrived on the scene and extracted her from her upended prison.

After this heroing experience, coupled with my morning labors…I was a mess. I completed my extended trip home, reflecting on all of the day’s events.

At home, Distraught and befuddled, I tried to relax. I lounged on our back deck, nursing a few beers while sharing my day with my wife. She was very attentive and interested in all that I had to say. We continued our discussion of the most recent ordeal, as we went on a casual walk around our neighborhood.

After we got home from our stroll that evening and we prepared for bed, I found myself still wrapped pretty tightly, as I had mentioned earlier. We then layed down to bed for the night, I tossed and turned and although, feeling exhausted, I still couldn’t sleep.

Without a word spoken, my lady felt my frustration and anguish. She comforted me with her soft touches, gently caressing my brow, she stroked my head and eventually worked her magic across and down my body, ever so gently relieving me of all my tensions…even now, I am not sure of her eventual intentions, but she brought me slowly and surely to arousal. I quietly became excited at her fingertips…her attention to detail in places that brought me to extreme pleasures.

Eventually we came to fruition in this very intimate love making session, bringing me to this…was that night of love making what a man wants? Or, was it what this man really needed?

I think that at that specific time and place, I really needed that coddling and ever so soft touching and caressing. I fell right to sleep that night, completely forgetting the day’s woes. I awoke the next morning feeling refreshed and re-energized, not forgetting what I had been through on the previous day, but feeling more relaxed, allowing me to deal with it much easier. I love my wife

Cheap Romance

In a recession, bring back romance and save…one suggestion for saving some money, not at the expense of cheapening the opportunity could be this. Stay home with your lover…with a little planning, minimal time and effort you could pull off a very memorable romantic experience, which could rival a chapter from a harlequin romance novel, without breaking the bank!

In preparation, planning is key, but understand that as your date progresses, be willing to stray from the big plan and don’t stress out over minor details but rather roll with the events…you’ll both enjoy the evening more and everything becomes more spontaneous adding to the ultimate experience.

Some things you may need are the following: (remember these are just suggestions) A great recipe, I found this one on allrecipes.com

Add a nice glass of your favorite wine, if you’re not sure what kind of wine to choose just ask your local grocer. (Just a note the most expensive wine is not always the best.) Next add a few candles to enhance the romantic mood. Your favorite easy listening music will only add to the ambiance. Last maybe some massage oil for after the wine and dinner, unless you feel like dessert first!

Most importantly relax you are having a night to remember and saving hard earned money at the same time, how sexy is that!

A Man’s Point of View

I know that I’m not speaking for all men …but, I also know that I am speaking the opinion of many. I am a self proclaimed leg and butt man! What does that mean? It means that when looking at a woman, a shapely calve leading up to thighs with some mass and continuing up to a well rounded butt will most always catch my eye. Though, I may be just a bit prejudiced… after all, I am very attracted to my wife’s leg and butt areas…and as described are quite shapely ….not to say, that I’m not attracted to the rest of the package, but I definitely have my favorite parts.

My woman is a fabulously, beautiful Plus sized woman who’s body is proportionately shaped throughout ….she is a gorgeous blonde, with wonderfully big blue-green eyes. She is voluptuous and well curved, with hard rounded buttocks and muscular shaped thighs that are accentuated with well defined calves leading to her beautifully arched model-like feet. Add to this magnificent look, clear soft skin, across her entire body and luscious big kissable lips enticing me with her come hither smile …that is a plus size package!

So in conclusion ladies… Plus sizes are just that…A Plus, in my eyes. So don’t fret the small things, enjoy your bodies as will many of us guys. Nothing is sexier than a shapely plus sized woman.